How dating your chakras will change all your relationships
especially the one with yourself
In 2016 I was told by my guides that I could read chakras and for the last ten years I have worked with hundreds of people to learn how chakras communicate with us, and how to use what they say in our everyday lives.
Each rotating centre holds powerful messages and when you speak to them, you open yourself up to receive information, guidance and clarity on different areas of your life.
Your chakras is where all your energy blocks reside. By learning to speak to them, you learn to understand what patterns, protections and programs are keeping you stuck in the same cycles in relationships and business. It’s a direct line on what to place your focus on for maximum results.
But first you need to date each other again.
It’s not uncommon to get caught up in life and to detach from what is happening in your body. Work, relationships, a busy schedule, a social life; every day seems filled with a list of to-dos and the first thing to get tossed to the curb is going inwards.
This means that meditation, contemplation, journaling, alone time, nature walks and silence all get forgotten, if they were ever started in the first place.
Who has time to sit with themselves, when there are other life events demanding their attention?
Yet that’s what I’m going to ask you to do.
When you don’t make time for your energy it feels abandoned by you. The very core of who you are is energy. It’s your essence. It is a living force that wants to be seen, heard, and loved.
Think about this idea but instead of chakras, imagine your energy as your most intimate partner.
If you stopped giving attention to your partner, what would happen? Most likely they would feel very hurt and if you continued to ignore them, they would leave.
Obviously your energy would never do that to you. But what your chakras want is to spend time with you so they can tell you how they are feeling.
Which means you need to date them. Yep. You need to woo the crap out of them. Show your chakras that they are important to you. Let them feel heard and appreciated.
They are worth that focused attention. I promise. When you and your energy begin communicating, there isn’t an area of your life that won’t be impacted for the better.
You will learn what is important to you, how you feel inside, and what you genuinely want out of life.
When you begin, close your eyes and focus on each chakra and ask it questions. You may feel the answer, hear the answer in your mind, or be shown a picture. There is no right or wrong way to communicate. You’ll know yours when it happens.
Start at your root chakra. Envision a red ball of energy at the base of your tailbone. Spend time asking questions about safety, security and belonging. Does your root chakra feel safe? Does it feel secure? If it doesn’t, ask more questions. Why doesn’t it feel safe? What can you do to help? If it feels grounded where it is, send it love and move up to the next chakra.
When you focus on your sacral chakra, imagine an orange ball of energy right above your pubis bone. Let the energy come to life there. Ask if it feels seen. If it doesn’t, ask more questions. Why doesn’t it feel seen? Does it feel like you are hiding? If so, why? If it feels turned on, send it love and move on to the next chakra.
Focusing on your solar plexus chakra, which is behind your belly button, sense a yellow ball of energy. Does it feel tight or relaxed? Ask it if it feels as though it is enough. Let the answer flow to you. If your solar plexus doesn’t feel like it is enough, ask it why? Is there somewhere specific where the not enoughness feelings come from? Can you honor what it says? If your solar plexus is rocking, move up to the heart.
When you land on your heart, let the green ball of energy guide you. Ask it if it feels loved. If it doesn’t, ask why it doesn’t feel loved? This may bring up emotions. Let them come up. Can you hold the container for your heart to share its message with you without trying to fix anything? If your heart is radiating love, move to the next chakra.
At the base of your neck, just above your clavicle bones is your throat chakra. Imagine a blue ball of energy sitting there and ask it if it feels heard. If the answer is no, get more curious. Does it feel heard at work? At home? What happens when it doesn’t feel heard? Can you allow your throat chakra to show you how you close down when your voice isn’t acknowledged. If your throat chakra is free flowing, move up to the space between your eyebrows.
Your third eye chakra is on your forehead where a third eye would be. Letting yourself imagine a purple ball of energy rotating there. When you are connected, ask your third eye if it trusts everyone. If it says no, ask if it doesn’t trust spirit, you, or someone else. Let your third eye be specific with you. Ask how you can build more trust with yourself or others. If your third eye is activated, move to the last chakra.
Sitting on the top of your head is the crown chakra. Envision a violet or white ball of energy. Ask this energy if it feels open or closed. If it is closed, ask what it is afraid of. Can you receive the answer without criticizing anything? If your crown chakra is happy, give thanks and finish the meditation.
The key is to be curious. Make getting to know your chakra a conversation. Keep asking questions until you feel like you have fully understood what your chakra is trying to tell you. Once you have talked to each chakra, grab your journal and write out what you received.
This is just a start and as you grow to learn more about each other, the conversations will evolve. Trust what you are receiving. Heck, you may even notice you can sense energies around you after doing this practice for a while.
Now go back to imagining your energy as your intimate partner. How does it feel after being given this much time, attention and focus? How would you feel if someone spent this much time with you?
Not to mention that the side effects are almost always more confidence, clarity, and connection to your authentic voice. Can you say intimacy at full blast?
I guess the only question left to ask is; when is your first date?
Avalon ✨
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